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Let’s face it, locking him up forever is one damn erotic sexual fantasy…. for both him and her. But for most couples, permanent male chastity remains just that, a far-fetched fantasy.

However, times are a changin’ and as male chastity becomes more popular, some couples are turning to permanent male chastity to not only enhance but to actually resurrect and sometimes even save their relationship.

Permanent male chastity is certainly not for every couple and is a decision that should never be taken lightly. After all, it’s permanent!

Preparing him for permanent male chastity is a process. It’s something that needs to be thoroughly discussed and planned out in order for it to work out. Many women thrive on locking up their partners in chastity – why I insist my boyfriend be locked in chastity.

The first step, once you have a well-fitting and reasonably comfortable chastity device locked in place , is to have him go 30 days of continuous chastity; absolutely no removal of the chastity device and obviously, no orgasms.

The next milestone is to have him get a Prince Albert or PA piercing that will work with his current chastity cage. This would also be the perfect time to get a new chastity device, one that is suitable for very long term wear.

After his piercing is completely healed, it is now time to stretch his time in chastity out to 60 days. If he can physically and emotionally handle two straight months of continuous chastity wear coupled with orgasm denial, he is ready to be locked up into permanent male chastity.

Some women will allow him 1 (one) orgasm per year, preferably on the anniversary of his permanent lock up, but always performed in a humiliating fashion.

Once he agrees to this, his surrender and devotion to you becomes complete. You now have your very own chastity slave.

Perhaps you are a women without a man to lock in chastity – if that’s the case you can always join a site like Mistress Meet – where there are other dominant women looking to meet a sub man to control and you can arrange a real time meet with your prospective sub.

With this control comes a power rush that is extremely erotic, from both his and her perspective.

He will always be horny, frustrated and ready to please, in any way that you want.

His libido can be kept at a high level by implementing intense weekly teasing sessions, with the chastity device always securely locked and in place of course.

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Nothing is more erotic than to be fucked good and hard, for as long as you want, all the while knowing that he will never be achieving a release. His frustration level, and your state of arousal, will both be at a 12 (on a scale of 1-10).

Experiencing this inequitable power dynamic will soon have you reaching ‘earthquake level’ types of orgasms.

As far as his prostrate health goes, his body will naturally produce a spontaneous discharge, usually in the form of a wet dream, every 60 to 90 days. There will be no need for you to perform any messy and time consuming milkings.

Permanent male chastity has been known to save an otherwise ‘hopeless’ relationship. It can effectively replace a disdainful and disrespectful attitude on his part with one of adoration and appreciation.

Of course an adequate chastity device is an absolute requirement as a firm foundation for permanent chastity.